There are people who think they can get you to love them by hating everything you do.
It happens like this: Creative Person puts stuff online. A few fans of this stuff decide to be really harsh/sarcastic or critical to the Creative Person as a way to get that Creative Person to like them. It does not work. Everyone is sad.
This is totally separate than trolling, where a commenter is just being malicious. In the situation I’m describing, the commenting fan does enjoy your work, and really, really wants you to like them. The best way they see to do that is to tell you how much they think you suck.
When I saw this happen to other people and I thought it was just people being jerks. Then it happened to me. At first, I thought these folks were just being mean, but then I met a few in person and it became very clear that they didn’t intend any offense. They just wanted me to think they were cool. They thought that if they criticized my work I would think they are awfully clever and smart and would want to be their friend.
I enjoy a good critique, but no peer has ever just jumped on me with a critique out of nowhere. Mostly, I have to beg for their opinions and thoughts. And frequently the conversation isn’t “Just tell me what’s wrong with me and my work” but more “Do you think this picture needs more magenta?”
Insulting someone online isn’t the way to get them to like you. If you like something a person does online, don’t tell them you hate them or their work. Certainly don’t do that with the expectation that it will get them to like you.
If you like something a creator is making, tell them you like it. A cruel remark isn’t going to make you appear clever, it’s going to make you appear hostile. Which isn’t to tell you never to critique someone. Do it if you feel it’s the right thing to do, but it’s not going to endear you to the person you’re critiquing, especially if it’s on a public forum.
Authors Note: This hasn’t happened recently. I’m not referring to a particular incident or person, but a pattern I’ve seen online. If you’ve recently had an interaction with me, and are questioning if this is about you, be assured, if it is not. The most recent time this has happened was over a year ago.